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I've slept with countless women since I was able to look over the steering wheel! Below you'll find a sampling of some of the stories I've filed over the years. They all appear in my book. Also, you can find testimonials of satisfied customers.

TESTIMONIALS:

 

Having recently discovered that you had made a "comeback" to the Dating industry i'd just like to take this opportunity to thank you for your contribution to this field. [...] back in 2005 i didn't really take much notice of your advice as most of the flashy self styled gurus in the seduction community were saying the opposite to you, and only a few guys were saying be natural.

They said (a) Be indirect. (b) Don't elude to sex early on. (c) They said use pre-prepared lines and contrived stories instead of being natural. (d) They said we must try and attract them, instead of assuming attraction between a man and a woman is a given. (e) They were telling guys that compliments are bad and make guys look desperate & predictable instead we should tease women & be cocky. And i look back now and i can't believe i bought into this fantasy they were selling. However, having come out of a relationship back then i was questioning myself, my confidence was low and their schemes seemed to make sense. 

Having tried these so called "methods" and techniques i realised i was getting less success than i was years earlier by just being honest, natural and charming with women. I realised that these guys claims of getting 90% success with super hot women by pretending not be be interested and avoiding sex talk was a total joke, and this was when i came back to your teachings from your seminar & the lair meeting. I took notes and everything you said now made total sense, and translated well into the real world and i kicked myself that i didn't appreciate this 2 years earlier. Now i see picking up women as a natural result of being a confident guy who likes himself.

I'd like to thank you for your input into the dating community, and it seems now that all the snazzy companies that were originally mocking your style are now copying it albeit using different terminology to describe it. I wonder how many of these guys will give you naturals credit as what you were saying 5 years ago is exactly what they are teaching now! Your advice has really been invaluble to me, and proven that being honest, natural, confident and charming is really by far the easiest way to as many women as i want.

Thanks again.

Best wishes

Tony, County Durham, UK.

 

"I thought the podcast was great.  The site where we first uploaded it, the listeners went nuts over knowing that you're back in action" - Craig


 

"David X, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!!

I’m working on it every day. That is : not to listen what they say and think for myself.

If I’m not doing that nobody can help me, no amount of logic and arguing will help. It’s not hard per se when you already don’t think for them and think for yourself, but it’s not easy if all you’ve been doing all your life is thinking about them and not about yourself.

I wish I just stopped doing what I was doing all this time and start living anew within a second

I appreciate all your help

Thank you very much! I have no idea what would I be doing if I haven’t watched your videos..'" - Danil, Los Angeles, California


 

"

After watching your video I would like to thank you enormously for sharing your views about women and your position and approach to this subject.

 Your “Don’t listen to what they say”, is changing my life. It’s amazing how simple idea like this can make a huge change. “You are the most important part of the relationship”…

 I really like your approach and appreciate it a lot.

 The less I care about them the more satisfactory my life becomes. It’s absolutely true, they are grown up adults and they must take care of themselves and solely achieve their goal, instead of riding on my back as some mindless irresponsible infants.

 I watched it multiple times since March and I think I know by heart the beginning of it, and you are totally right, we don’t understand, we listen but we don’t understand.

You are totally right about devil and angel metaphor, they are nicer than me metaphor, how manipulative they are, and knowing what you want. I also like :If you don’t want to fuck me why do I need you?

 It’s just amazing.

 To counteract me not understanding automatically what you were saying I decided to listen and learn “manually” and to absorb every idea that you give. I was amazed that it’s true, I listen but I don’t understand and honestly it’s not hard to understand. It became a challenge of its own, because I consider myself very smart and when I realize I don’t understand something it becomes my goal to get it.

 I would like to virtually shake hands with you as you are one of the rarest persons I’ve ever encountered in my life that is generating that much positive change.

 And I have watched several courses including the famous [...] and I can say that yours ideas [...] are the most natural, require minimal amount of thinking and produce greater results.

 Thank you very much!"
- A.D.


 

"Thanks for our consultation on Friday.  I was really inspired and was

laid within hours that night :)"

 - Paulie, New York


 

"   My name is Fernando, I´m brazilian so don´t worry about the text errors. You r doing a great job!!!" - Fernando


 

"I talked to one of my friends over the weekend, Chris, and he says he is ready for you to come down here. I still need to talk to my other three friends. So, I'll let you know soon.

 Hey David, I want to thank you for all your insights. I feel that I came home a changed man (with a complete different attitude). I feel that I am ready to charm the girls that enter my path. Thanks!!!

 My mom told me to tell you "Hello" and she wants to thank you for taking us around town on Thursday.

- Jean-Luc

 

"Hello

I love how you approach women

You direct and blunt a

You says we are scare of women and we think to much for them

We dont think of our need

We think that women are angel and that we are the devil 

The difficulty i have i believe that they are not enough women for me

Every time that it does not work with one

I fell like it is my fault

and I fell like I have to settle

I dont fell like the catch

Maybe i was not good enought , or good looking or to nice (Wussy) or not enought aggresive

I hate rejection and fell that women have power on relationship

I know you must think like you dont understand

Like you said in the mastery on David deangelo

We hear you , but we take by heart

I have no problem of leading when i am with a women

i have more a problem having my value and saying bye to women who does not stand those value

Like you said when we dont have confidence in us , we attract those women who are like to take us on a ride

Keep the good work

Anyway

Thank you for help in advance

 - Jonas, Dusseldorf


 

"My name is Florent, I'm french and I live for the moment in Buenos Aires
until december. [...] about you method, the most important is that you don't give technics but more a way to redefine ourself.
'" - Florent


 

"I'm very impressed about your humor and the way you talk it's really honest and straightforward."
-
Lars, Amsterdam


 

"Dear David,

maybe you want to visit germany sometime then we can have a chat with mutual respect.
" - Kurt

 

"I live in Chile, South America, so going to these events is rather difficult, and it's a little harder coming across the individuals that spoke in them. 

A group of guys here have been listening to the stuff and simply can't get enough of it.  We are (and particualarly I am) looking for mentors.  Someone who can help us erase years of counter-productive mental programming in favor of new attitutes.  Especially those relating to being a man, and our male to female attitudes.  

Let me know if we could work something out so that we can start teaching all these chilean girls what a real man is all about." - Juan


 

"My name is Heath and I am emailing you from Australia [...] I had a listen to you on the DYD Mastery & the DYD Interview programs and I have to say personality wise I agree with just about everything you say. '" - Heath, Sydney


 

"Some time ago I had a phone consult with Davidx... I would like to get
another...
"
- James, Hertfordshire, U.K.


 

"I really think you are amazing. The concepts and the mindsets that you have are pretty powerful.

I wish I could hang out with you but I live in Macedonia. It's right above Greece.
"

-Trajko

 

"Howie from England, here! [...]
A little background. I'm a writer, and part-time singer / entertainer, based in the United Kingdom.

Currently I'm writing articles and putting together a short course / lecture, for a friend of mine, who runs a charitable organisation for people with physical and social handicaps, and would like to gather as much "bullshit free" information as I can. I've also recently finished Neil Strauss' book "The Game", to review for the organisation, and, after reading about the various techniques and systems, was most impressed by your ideas. You seem to be a real down-to-earth guy, with a no-bullshit style.

A lot of your advice seems to echo that of my uncle John, who, in his day, was a very successful ladiesman. When I was a teenager, I asked his advice on women. Inbetween obscenities, he told me pretty much what you say...be honest, have a good sense of humour, relax and have fun.

He says he can't understand why people go on courses or read books on the subject - go up and ask them, and if they say no, big deal, its their loss! However, I realise that some people do need gentle guidance with what some do naturally - hence the course I'm developing!

The problem is, the guys I'm going to be teaching, have read all the books containing the "conventional" dating wisdom, but are still experiencing a dry feeling a few inches below the old bellybutton! I'm trying to instill the correct mind-set in them, rather than giving them systems and "technology" that make no sense! I want to get them talking to people, not memorising patterns and shit like that!
" - Howie, London


 

"you seem to be one of the best in the industry " - Niko


 

"I'm a 17-year-old aspiring PUA living near montreal. I just saw your segment on David D's Mastery Series. I loved it!"
- Yohan, Montreal


 

"I heard the interview with David X. I actually stopped and listened to it a few times -- something about the way you communicate was so much more
powerful and genuine than most of the other gurus, it really caught my
attention.
" - Brian, San Francisco

 

"what you said about a man knowing what he wants and feeling absolutely great to go after that is wonderful. I believe that if a man has a goal in life (no matter what, how small it is), and during the process of pursuing the goal, woman will automatically be attracted to him. It's not a question of doubt. It says all the right things to woman - territorial, confidence, protection, etc...

[...] thanks for your time to clear my thought! 

 - James A., Florida


 

"Saw your presentation On the Mastery series(DeAngelo)...very good points you made especially about "fear of women" which is a problem...'" - Stuart


 

"I think you come from a different perspective than most experts on
dating and believe that attending one of your seminars would be more
beneficial to me.

I live an Atlanta, GA but would consider flying up to Montreal for a
couple of days.
"
- Frankie, Atlanta


 

">It amazes me that sucessful, powerful and well balanced men, who are
>confident and ballanced in most aspects of their lives, are often still
>nervous and afraid of approaching a mysterious beautiful woman. Or maybe
>they lack relationship management skills. The thing is, no matter how
>succesful, powerful, or wealthy a man is he will never  feel like a real
>man untill he can go after, and get the women that he desires the most!
>Only a man who can succeed with women by using his wit, his daring, and
>charm,  can really feel completey alive.
>
>This nervousness or lack of confidence around women is something that
>most men feel in differnt degrees. This does not describe david x
>however. I've met David  3 times. He is very confident. He's
>charismatic, charming, and a very animated story teller.  He is not
>tall. He is not svelt, nor is he a fashion guru. I think he once said he
>sometimes buys his shirts at zellers,  if you get my drift. Clearly he
>is not Brad Pitt.  Around a bunch of guys, he sometimes comes across as
>a little rough around the edges. So how does he get such incredible
>results with women?  David basis his relationships on 2 simple rules.
>
>
>rule #1.
>who cares what she thinks!
>
>and
>
>rule #2.
>You are the most important person in the relationship!
>
>
>
>This may seem insensitive or selfish, or even too simplistic at first
>glance. But I've seen it time and time again where someone in a david x
>seminar would be moaning about their complicated problems with women.
>The situations and timelines were varied. Some were first approach
>related. Some were managing currnent relationships. And some situations
>regarded dealing with past reationships.
>The source of the negative emotional loop in each case was almost always
>the same, as david would point out each time (sometimes by shouting
>right at you)  "you see...you're thinking about what she's thinking. now
>where's that getting you????"
>
>as simple as rule#1 is, some guys can hear it repeatedly and still not
>get it. You see, rule #1 hints at another guiding principle: In any
>relationship with a woman, it is the man that must lead at all times.
>You lead with confidence and  build her a fantasy world to step into.
>That's the heart of the program.
>
>Think about it.  If you were driving on a crowded expressway and your
>mind started to drift and you began to worry about what every other
>driver might be thinking about at that moment, you'd  be so distracted
>that you'd probably have an accident.Your driving skill would be severly
>impaired, just as your social and flirting skills are impaired when
>you're worried about what she's thinking about. You're relationship
>skills are severely handicapped unless you can maintain internalfocus.
>You need to invest in consistently focusing on your own thoughts and
>desired outcomes. So another way for me to think about  "who cares what
>she thinks"  is,   to leave enough of your brain  focused on yourself so
>you can steer the ship.
>
>
>what davidx demonstrates and personifies, is that only after a guy can
>get past  worrying about what anyone else is  thinking, can you truly be
>free to express yourself around any woman you choose, with confidence,
>with ease, and  with a good sense of humour.
>
>
>Women are always fantasizing about being romanced and swept off their
>feet.  you build them the fantasy and they will eagerly fall into it.
>That's just how it works. As soon as you let them lead you around, trust
>me, you are no longer the stuff that makes up their fantasies. they
>might stick around for a while because of other issuses, but as soon as
>someone more skilled at building them a fantasy comes along, they'll be
>pulled in that direction. So you have to work at it if you want to keep
>em around.
>
>Anyways, That's it. There are no canned routines to remember. no corny
>scripts.  no peacocking. no bench pressing. Instead there is a plan.
>It's based on a core of HONESTY and DIRECTNESS.  David will guide you
>through a specific sequence of tasks and your confidence will build as
>you achieve specific goals that will ramp up your skills.
>
>Yes guys, you get to be yourself.....wisecracking, funny, cocky,
>SPONTANEOUS, romantic, and unapologetically horny! Imagine that you will
>Never again apologize for, or try to hide the flirtatious horny little
>devil that your are. Instead, David will  show you how to use your
>natural energy in a fun and direct way to achieve the success with women
>that you've always fantasized about.
" - Mike