Here is my latest video podcast Titled the Leader and The Bad Boy . Remember  I’m collecting questions until the end of June  so I can answer them in my latest book.  I will be awarding a 3 copies of my new book to  3 people who can come up with the best question. Send you questions to david@davidxdating.com or davidxdating@gmail.com.

Thanks,

David

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James D here, by now I hope you all have an understanding of Rule number 1. Now lets move on to Rule Number 2 “Your the most  important  person in the relationship” . After learning  more about Rule number 2 from my consultations and lessons from David . I begin to see clearly  how not following this Rule affected me when trying to meet women. I was one of those AFCs who believed  that I had to do stuff and go against who I was as a person just to please a women . I thought that  by giving into a woman’s demands, displaying pleasing personality  that wasn’t my true self, and putting up with a woman ill treatment was  one of the burdens I had to bare when trying to meet a women or being in a relationship . I didn’t  really start to realize that this was a problem until found my confidence  being eaten away not only by putting on a false character around women, but by tolerating  a woman’s ill treatment of me. Even though  I began to have this awareness  before meeting  David , I still was putting up with all this negative Bullshit. It was David who taught me to avoid the perils of being taken advantage of  by a woman by having respect for myself  . Now Before I go into further details on Rule Number 2 . I’m not saying that  you should be selfish by not being chivalrous  towards women ,respectful,  or domineering  . What I’m trying to empathize is not having to be someone your not just to try and please a woman, realize when your being taken advantage of or mistreated by a woman and stick up for yourself. I noticed when I go out to meet woman, not all of them but a lot will play a lot of head games and give you a lot of crap.   It’s your job to be able to realize when your being tooled and deal with the situation  in the proper manner either by walking  away, calling a women on her bullshit, or I like to  do and that is deal with things in a humorous manner by taking what I feel is  bullshit conversation and reframe the situation in a humorous  manner. Sometimes women like it when I call them on there games other times they walk away. I just say fuck it.  Whenever I find my self breaking Rule number 2 , I have to keep on saying to myself ” I’m a great person ,  fuck the judgements other people have of me,  I ‘m a respectful and confident  person and I deserved to be treated the same way, and if don’t like me for who I am that ha its’s your lost I ‘m on the path to greatness and  better life. Remember that .”  I will keep you posted with some stories soon have a great weekend.

James

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It James D there ,I did a short interview with David X about Rule number 1 which  I will post later on in the day . If there is anyone out there who’s  was a student of Davids or has found his material to be helpful in making a change in there lives please send an email to David at davidxdating@gmail .com  Were collecting  testimonials  . Also  David wanted me to remind if  your an university student , attending a trade  school or any institution that he’s offering a 20% percent discounts on Skype consultations.  Go to Davids contact  page HERE and contact him by phone or email to get your discount .  David has some great stuff coming up this summer new products , coaching program . and most of all some free kick ass tips on picking up the chicks for you all. I begin my analysis  on Rule number 2 Starting next week.

Peace out ,

James : D

Situation 1 Hot Blond Chick MY God She WAS HOT

First off I was at this  club there was Hot Blonde tall girl with nice solid sexy legs, perfect shaped body , and nice curvaceous  breast this girl was a smoking 9 maybe on the borderline  of a 10.  So I walked up walked up to her as she was heading outside, my eyes fixed scoping her the best feature on her body. I think I’m going to mention  that  nice legs and that her black provocative  dress makes her sexy body radiant . I tap her on the back slowing she turns around with a half of smile beaming on her face as her light blue eyes open. Hi my name is ‘James what your name.” Julie she says I says. I wanted to let let you know I was standing over by the bar checking you out . Confidently  and without hesitation I say to her  I just wanted tell  you have very sexy legs and I like that black dress you got on because  it makes your wonderful body radiate. Did she scold me for such a compliment? Nope!  the smile on her face intensified and with a tone of enthhuisim she said thanks.

Situation 2 Can I Have Some Of Your Beer? 

I was out with my friends  Saturday night. I was drinking my beer and I saw this very cute girl wearing some beautiful green dress for the St. Patricks day holiday .  I was a bit buzzed at the time and caught  up in all the excitement I was having with my friends, but I really wanted to see what  what this girl in the green dress was  all about. I walk over taking at the last an unknowingly swing out of my beer . I was like  WTF if used to having something to drink normally when I socialize  with people , however the line for the bar was long do to the drinking holiday, and I didn’t  want to miss out on the opportunity to meet this lady . I just decided to talk to the lady first. I walk over to lady as she was with her other lady friends  and I noticed they were all drinking  beer the same  type of beer I was drinking . I tap the girl diverting her attention away from her friends  . “Hi whats up ?” I say to her  . Now all her friends  stop their conversation and  immediately  look over at me. Hi everyone I say. “Hi” Again  I start to talk to the girl  I was  originally wanting to talk to . Hey your drinking the same beer I’m drinking , I’m a little low can you fill me up . Here friends start laughing she’s giving that WTF look. Surpriseinly  she take her beer bottle and give me just a little . I’m in on this conversation  .

Even tough I  approached a few more ladies I wanted to use these examples  to show you that you can be direct with a woman or you can be yourself by saying what is on your mind at the moment . When  you are able to clear you mind of how she might react to what your saying  you can get some positive responses from a woman. If for some reason the lady isn’t  reciprocating  in a friendly manner it’s no big deal and you know at that moment if she’s  going to worth your time in effort when striking a conversation. I’ve used to game a women for 20 mins and even got some numbers only to find  later that I had wasted my time with a woman I was interested in.  However I take each experience as if I learned something new while at the same time building  each situation is help me to build  my self-confidence. Thats how you guys should look at each encounter that  way you can feel that you experienced  something that  will get you close to reaching your goal.

My student will be posting  later this week some of the things he discussed in his last posting  about rule number 1. I put up this clip  I hope you enjoy. I have fixed the settings  on my blog so you can now leave your comments for each postings on this blog .

David

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I learned 2 rules from David Rule number 1 “ Don’t worry about whats she’s  thinking”  Rule number 2  “Your the most important one in the relationship”.  For now I just want to focus on  Rule number 1 “Don’t worry about what she’s  thinking” . This was a rule that stood out in my head right away so vivid clear  like visualizing a hot, big breasted blonde in my head !LOL! I noticed every time after I’d use up my routines and I was clueless as to what to say next to a women . My mind would be racing to figure out compute what would she want to hear that would be pleasing to her, and because  of this I would feel the pressure inside as to WTF do I do or say next. As a result of this over thinking  my mind overload and shutdown as if I were to figure out some complex math problem ? + good game = get the hot chick to sleep with me.  David shifted my perspective by clarifying to me Rule 1  ” That there is no standard  set of pickup lines or system of correct dialogues when talking to women , and that I really shouldn’t just think what I think she whats to hear. Simple Right? True, but for someone like me who thinks a lot  intellectually and thinks about what others want to hear based on how I was conditioned to act in social settings this rule would be a challenge for me because every time I wanted to just be myself and say what was on my mind  I would get this social condition period cramp in my head .  Also he taught me  that you can’t  just automatically  assume that she’s having a particular thought about you or negative judgements to what your saying  or the expression you give off  as you talk to her for the first time . This was  another thing that I would always think about when approaching  women . It sounds crazy , but before I even talk to a women I always  would wonder what she thinks and how she would react to what I would say this would cause my mind to drift away from the goal of picking up a chick to some other place full of negative B.S. . After David explained this to me I felt  more at ease and learned not to put so much effort into what to say to a woman and to think about her impression of me   . I did it, I set aside all the PUA material I owned for a bit to take my interactions to the next level. With that  said I will take sometime this week to go out into the bars and other public places to apply this first Rule and record for you what I experienced. Until next time I wish you fans of the Davids Blog the best with your success with meeting women.

Peace

James D.