Hi Guys  ,

James D here, by now I hope you all have an understanding of Rule number 1. Now lets move on to Rule Number 2 “Your the most  important  person in the relationship” . After learning  more about Rule number 2 from my consultations and lessons from David . I begin to see clearly  how not following this Rule affected me when trying to meet women. I was one of those AFCs who believed  that I had to do stuff and go against who I was as a person just to please a women . I thought that  by giving into a woman’s demands, displaying pleasing personality  that wasn’t my true self, and putting up with a woman ill treatment was  one of the burdens I had to bare when trying to meet a women or being in a relationship . I didn’t  really start to realize that this was a problem until found my confidence  being eaten away not only by putting on a false character around women, but by tolerating  a woman’s ill treatment of me. Even though  I began to have this awareness  before meeting  David , I still was putting up with all this negative Bullshit. It was David who taught me to avoid the perils of being taken advantage of  by a woman by having respect for myself  . Now Before I go into further details on Rule Number 2 . I’m not saying that  you should be selfish by not being chivalrous  towards women ,respectful,  or domineering  . What I’m trying to empathize is not having to be someone your not just to try and please a woman, realize when your being taken advantage of or mistreated by a woman and stick up for yourself. I noticed when I go out to meet woman, not all of them but a lot will play a lot of head games and give you a lot of crap.   It’s your job to be able to realize when your being tooled and deal with the situation  in the proper manner either by walking  away, calling a women on her bullshit, or I like to  do and that is deal with things in a humorous manner by taking what I feel is  bullshit conversation and reframe the situation in a humorous  manner. Sometimes women like it when I call them on there games other times they walk away. I just say fuck it.  Whenever I find my self breaking Rule number 2 , I have to keep on saying to myself ” I’m a great person ,  fuck the judgements other people have of me,  I ‘m a respectful and confident  person and I deserved to be treated the same way, and if don’t like me for who I am that ha its’s your lost I ‘m on the path to greatness and  better life. Remember that .”  I will keep you posted with some stories soon have a great weekend.

James