Hi Guys ,
James D here, by now I hope you all have an understanding of Rule number 1. Now lets move on to Rule Number 2 “Your the most important person in the relationship” . After learning more about Rule number 2 from my consultations and lessons from David . I begin to see clearly how not following this Rule affected me when trying to meet women. I was one of those AFCs who believed that I had to do stuff and go against who I was as a person just to please a women . I thought that by giving into a woman’s demands, displaying pleasing personality that wasn’t my true self, and putting up with a woman ill treatment was one of the burdens I had to bare when trying to meet a women or being in a relationship . I didn’t really start to realize that this was a problem until found my confidence being eaten away not only by putting on a false character around women, but by tolerating a woman’s ill treatment of me. Even though I began to have this awareness before meeting David , I still was putting up with all this negative Bullshit. It was David who taught me to avoid the perils of being taken advantage of by a woman by having respect for myself . Now Before I go into further details on Rule Number 2 . I’m not saying that you should be selfish by not being chivalrous towards women ,respectful, or domineering . What I’m trying to empathize is not having to be someone your not just to try and please a woman, realize when your being taken advantage of or mistreated by a woman and stick up for yourself. I noticed when I go out to meet woman, not all of them but a lot will play a lot of head games and give you a lot of crap. It’s your job to be able to realize when your being tooled and deal with the situation in the proper manner either by walking away, calling a women on her bullshit, or I like to do and that is deal with things in a humorous manner by taking what I feel is bullshit conversation and reframe the situation in a humorous manner. Sometimes women like it when I call them on there games other times they walk away. I just say fuck it. Whenever I find my self breaking Rule number 2 , I have to keep on saying to myself ” I’m a great person , fuck the judgements other people have of me, I ‘m a respectful and confident person and I deserved to be treated the same way, and if don’t like me for who I am that ha its’s your lost I ‘m on the path to greatness and better life. Remember that .” I will keep you posted with some stories soon have a great weekend.